Sissygasm 101 - An Analytical Approach to Sissygasm
Original Post by missdeffy
Seeing many of you girls struggle with achieving a sissygasm, I made up my mind to open an account and share my knowledge and experience with you. I enjoy having sissygasms everyday and know exactly how to reach one as I reached my first one after doing some scientific research about it. I felt bad that I was not giving my knowledge back to my fellow sisters and I decided to do it.
First of all, I would like to point out common misconceptions about sissygasm:
1. You need drugs (poppers) to reach it.
2. You need toys to reach it.
3.You need to refrain from masturbation for a really long time.
4. You need to edge until you go crazy and etc.
These are all ideas which I believe are wrong, there are others that can be added here too but I cannot remember them right now, if you do please write them in the comments.
Now let's get back to the important part. How does one reach a sissygasm? First of all, in order to understand how to reach a sissygasm, a sissy should first know the process their body goes through while they ejaculate. In order to ejaculate, first there should be a sufficient amount of stimulation so that orgasm and ejaculation can begin. Then rhythmic contractions in the urethra begins and the person reaches orgasm and ejaculates. These rhythmic contractions are caused by pelvic floor muscles. As you masturbate, your body slowly tenses that muscle and when you hit the maximum point of stimulation you ejaculate. This is very easy because you have done it many times and biologically your body is designed that way to be able to hold an erection. I believe those who get fucked by real men can remember seeing them squeze their buttocks when they fuck you hard because it helps to keep that muscle tense.
The problem with sissygasm is that, with sissygasm it is really hard to reach a sufficient amount of stimulation. This stimulation does not mean riding your dildo as fast as you can or watching hypnos, wearing your best dresses. Sure, they are needed to get you in the right mindset but I am very sure that there are a lot of good girls who try their best, lock themselves for days, wear panties every day, yet they cannot reach a sissygasm. Because biologically, anal stimulation is not the proper way to ejaculate. Your brain gets all confused and does not know what it has to do to maintain the stimulation, yet even cum from that.
How can you reach a sufficient amount of stimulation then?The practice is simple. You have to train your pelvic floor muscles. I am sure many of you girls knew it already but knowing the theory and applying it practically are two different things. When I first started out I also knew that pelvic floor muscles are used in the process of sissygasm but figuring out how was the most difficult part.
Now, first you need to locate and feel your pelvic floor muscles. It is not difficult. Next time you go to pee, pay attention to the muscle that stops the process of urination. Remember the feeling, it is as if your anus is contracting inwards and the head of your penis is stretching outwards. In order to reach sissygasm, you first have to train this muscle. It is very easy to do so because no one will see you when you do it. There are 2 exercises that I use to train mine.
1. Contract your pelvic floor muscles for 10 seconds, let go for 5 seconds. Repeat 4 times in one set of exercise. Try to do 8 sets every day. As you get comfortable, increase the duration.
2. Contract your pelvic floor muscles for at least 30 seconds, then let go. The muscle will get tired very easily. Do again once you feel normal again. Do it 8 times like the other exercise. Increase the duration as you progress.
The second exercise is the most important one that will help you reach the sissygasm. You have to keep your pelvic floor muscles tense during the whole sissygasm session. It is like rewiring your brain so that it can understand that, whenever you ride a dildo for example it has to keep those muscles contracted. It has to learn that this is your new way of orgasming. Even though you are a sissy, your brain might still work like a guy when it comes to ejaculating because it is a natural instinct and you have to change it. When you keep your pelvic floor muscles tense during the whole session, you will be able to feel that both pleasure and pressure is growing stronger. If you are fingering yourself, you will feel your finger vacuumed inside your ass. If you are riding a dildo, you will feel that you are powerful enough to crush that dildo. The best part is if you are riding a guy, he will get so much pleasure from you squeezing his big cock. That will make you a better sissy.Also, do not worry if at your first sissygasms your cock gets very hard. As you get used to it, your brain will understand that there is no use to making your cock hard if you are not using it to fuck someone. Your brain will do it to preserve energy, rule of nature.
I also want to share some small tips on what to do before sissygasm sessions:
1. Do not drink too much water, you will feel that you have to pee very frequently. This is because when you touch the prostate it gives you a feeling that you have to pee and if you drink too much water, some accidents can happen.
2. Empty your bowels. I hope you know it by now.
3. Use enough lube.
4. Find one position that you will be comfortable without changing it. Changing positions can lead to losing the stimulation if you are inexperienced.
5. Do wear girly clothes, they help a lot with getting you to the right mindset. Being able to cum from anal is not necessarily a sissygasm. You have to feel like a true girl to have that orgasm.
6. Hypnos help a lot.
Now, if you have any questions, you can ask me. I'd be glad to answer my beautiful fellow sisters!